Many of us may have had beautiful visions of what married life is all about before marriage, only to find it a completely different ball game thereafter. While those who are single cannot wait to get married, many are there who can’t wait to get out  after tying the knot. Hence the analogy of marriage as a city under siege: those outside want to get in, while those on the inside want to get out. What is going on in a marriage, and what adjustments are necessary to make it work? This brings us to an interesting subject of the difference between before marriage and after.

Discussions

1. What are the differences between before and after marriage?
2. Can you quickly adapt to married life? Why or why not?
3. Changes in roles, greater responsibilities, and possible mismatches in expectations come after marriage. How do you think your expectations should be adjusted?